tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post3364407643686041862..comments2024-03-11T07:02:20.237+01:00Comments on Read Aloud Dad : Why Reading Aloud Has No Effect And What To Do About It?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-20838056932795489402011-10-17T01:00:30.005+02:002011-10-17T01:00:30.005+02:00Thanks Nancy,
Great words there ... this is more...Thanks Nancy,<br /><br />Great words there ... this is more than a chore, more than an education. <br /><br />We are "feeding their minds and spirit". We are pushing the boundaries of their self-conscience and their conscience of the world that surrounds them.<br /><br />I truly appreciate your words of wisdom today!<br /><br />Thanks so much!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @200ed8ff26d6f3ff16f496ced4b7d354 Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-22884699765945819332011-10-16T21:24:02.074+02:002011-10-16T21:24:02.074+02:00Nice. Especially the love part. Children are per...Nice. Especially the love part. Children are persons, not machines. We read to feed their minds and spirit- not something that is easily measured.<br /><br />Admiration, Hope and Love,<br /><br />NancyNancyfromSageParnassusnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-88718107212076566872011-10-04T17:50:48.306+02:002011-10-04T17:50:48.306+02:00Thanks Sharla!
Wow, a homeschooling mom of 7! Co...Thanks Sharla! <br /><br />Wow, a homeschooling mom of 7! Congratulations!<br /><br />You are completely right, our worlds continue expanding as we read books - it is true for kids and for us grown-ups, as well.<br /><br />Thanks for taking the time to leave a comment. Much appreciated!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: Sharla K Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-1077472614753230952011-10-04T03:33:02.816+02:002011-10-04T03:33:02.816+02:00Great post! My world has been expanded so much be...Great post! My world has been expanded so much because of books and I want that for my children, which is my main motivation for reading aloud. It also contributes to relationship between a parent and child. <br /><br />You are so right about not looking for results and cause and effect, but instead focusing on continuing to do something that you know is a good thing!Sharla Khttp://thechaosandtheclutter.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-64334947972775599272011-10-03T21:40:11.068+02:002011-10-03T21:40:11.068+02:00Hi Catherine,
Another great response - this time ...Hi Catherine,<br /><br />Another great response - this time from you!<br /><br />I love to hear from families that love reading aloud. Congratulations on your practice of sharing great books even with your teenage son - a great example for all parents (including me) who wonder how will it work out one day when our kids reach teendom!<br /><br />Sooooo nice of you to leave this comment! :-) Thanks so much.<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: Catherine Falce Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-41451608237887364302011-10-03T16:08:18.147+02:002011-10-03T16:08:18.147+02:00I've come over from the Homeschool Showcase. ...I've come over from the Homeschool Showcase. Very nice blog! <br />It's lovely to see you've received so many great responses to this post. :)<br /><br />We love read alouds here. My eldest is 13 soon, and still sits with us to listen. I think it's quite funny how he not only critiques the story and character development, but also how I am reading the character's part, now. Yes .. he's a bit of a character!Catherine Falcenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-70043349032127544022011-10-02T19:25:14.179+02:002011-10-02T19:25:14.179+02:00Hi Angie!
Thank you so much for this great messa...Hi Angie! <br /><br />Thank you so much for this great message. I can only imagine how difficult it must be to read aloud to children when there are kids of such different ages (and interests) inside a household. <br /><br />Sometimes, I too have trouble with my own 4-year old twins - so I can only imagine how your challenges are much greater with 6 children and many older kids at that!<br /><br />From my experience, reading aloud is just as you pointed out - about relationship and experience. <br /><br />I am not sure about the situation in your household, but if you can offer even more 'relationship and experience' that may be one way of tackling the 'problem'.<br /><br />That means involving another grown-up (more relationship and experience) in the quality time. If your partner can be present for read-aloud time, at least until new listening habits are formed - this will be of great help. Especially if your partner can take turns at reading as well.<br /><br />Kids always like (even if they don't admit it) spending quality time with parents, so that is a magnet. <br /><br />As you have half a dozen potential listeners, maybe you can create a home 'book club' that meets at a certain time of the day on certain days, so that every one knows beforehand. This book club would have a name and a goal (after several sessions you can jointly think about a goal for next year).<br /><br />Maybe rent a DVD of the movie when you finish reading a book (depending on the book). Or dangle some other prize for the book club participants.<br /><br />Maybe change the venue for the book club meeting from time to time. <br /><br />Make a list of 12- 15 books that can be read at book club - show them the book covers and tell them a brief synopsis of the stories and then let your kids choose which book will be read. <br /><br />Keep the first couple of meetings simple and let democracy work.<br /><br />Make sure that the 'book club' time is always well supplied with cookies (for attending members only, of course). <br /><br />Try reading an easier picture book as an introduction every time, and then move on to a chapter from the more ambitious book. Make it clear that initially the book club will read a single chapter per meeting, unless the club asks the readers for another chapter. <br /><br />Kids indeed can be very effective at staging a 'mutiny' undermining the effort, so the only viable strategy is to make small steps. I don't believe that you can easily step up to reading a C.S. Lewis book - you can only do it gradually. <br /><br />Maybe thinking out of the box will help you find a new format that will make your older kids happy and then the results will come. <br /><br />Hopefully some of this may help!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />@f59ee338580c2c5f808fbc6a02382322 Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-71708527756358810692011-09-30T04:30:28.696+02:002011-09-30T04:30:28.696+02:00This is a timely post. I have been struggling with...This is a timely post. I have been struggling with reading to my children at bedtime, because I demand quiet and attention, and it just doesn't seem to matter to the children any more. I have 6 children. My oldest two are grown and nearly grown, avid, strong readers, and all but my 3 year old read independently. I don't read to the children with school performance in mind. It is about relationship, and shared experiences, etc. It's just that we don't always seem eye to eye about book choice. My children will plop down and daily listen to children's book CDs of books that I think are borderline twaddle,but if I try to read CS Lewis, or classic fairy tales, Aesop fables, etc., I almost have mutiny on my hands. <br /><br />But the message is? Keep it up? Keep choosing good books and they will become gourmets? Or cave into the twaddle for their sense of satisfaction?angiehttp://www.graymattersonline.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-2348089693571169212011-09-18T23:12:20.190+02:002011-09-18T23:12:20.190+02:00Awesome. No two Snowflakes are alike. Awesome. No two Snowflakes are alike. Sheree Fitchnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-72553146347550605872011-09-18T23:12:19.800+02:002011-09-18T23:12:19.800+02:00Thanks so much for your comment Sheree.
Glad you ...Thanks so much for your comment Sheree.<br /><br />Glad you enjoyed it!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @3480f2f753ffcfd4ff2c75e91a9d00bc Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-70880911541899042062011-09-18T23:12:19.354+02:002011-09-18T23:12:19.354+02:00As an elementary librarian I encourage parents to ...As an elementary librarian I encourage parents to read aloud to their children. Their child might not be the smartest or best reader, but I see them light up when they talk about reading with their parents. Kids choose books because they want mom or dad to read it to them, or they want to read it to their parents. Parents who read to their children (but don't make it a chore) have created an experience that their kids appreciate. They also teach their kids to associate reading with good experiences, which balances out the stress of learning to read.Abundance of Bookshttp://twitter.com/AbundanceBooksnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-78528429720963459942011-09-18T23:12:18.928+02:002011-09-18T23:12:18.928+02:00Thanks for these great words!
Loved your comment...Thanks for these great words! <br /><br />Loved your comment about kids 'lighting up' when they talk about reading with their moms and dads. Yes, reading aloud is a special connection between parents and kids. It is called 'reading aloud', but it is so much more than a 'mere' reading session. As you say rightly, it is also a great way to help teach kids to associate reading with great experiences. So important!<br /><br />Thanks so much for taking the time to leave this great comment!<br /><br />BTW, elementary librarians rock! <br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: Abundance of Books nRead Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-52147260574632591192011-09-18T23:12:18.513+02:002011-09-18T23:12:18.513+02:00Excellent points for all parents to keep in mind, ...Excellent points for all parents to keep in mind, I think, Read Aloud Dad. Thanks!Jen Robinsonhttp://www.GrowingBookworms.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-53745819164933925372011-09-18T23:12:18.099+02:002011-09-18T23:12:18.099+02:00Well said!Well said!Beth S.http://bethsfbtb.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-60175152625749148502011-09-18T23:12:17.649+02:002011-09-18T23:12:17.649+02:00Thank you so much Jen,
Your words highly apprecia...Thank you so much Jen,<br /><br />Your words highly appreciated as always!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad <br /><br />Re: Jen Robinson Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-83837339913544628772011-09-18T23:12:17.254+02:002011-09-18T23:12:17.254+02:00Thanks Beth,
So nice of you to take the time to l...Thanks Beth,<br /><br />So nice of you to take the time to leave a comment!<br /><br />Much appreciated!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Beth S. Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-71521830758198607372011-09-18T23:12:16.800+02:002011-09-18T23:12:16.800+02:00As well as all the great things you pointed out ab...As well as all the great things you pointed out about reading aloud to children, here are a few more. <br /><br />Creating shared memories and references - I enjoyed it as much as the children! And now that everyone is in their 20's and 30's, they still refer to certain characters or situations -"Are you sitting on my hat?" " "No, I am sitting on my own hat." Richard Scarry's Great Big Mystery Book <br /><br />An opportunity to travel without leaving home to learn about people's lives in other places and times through great stories like The Good Master and The singing Tree by Kate Seredy.<br /><br />Improving my own vocabulary :).Martylaynehttp://www.martylayne.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-87819039220330185442011-09-18T23:12:16.283+02:002011-09-18T23:12:16.283+02:00Hi Martlayne,
Fantastic addition to the list of b...Hi Martlayne,<br /><br />Fantastic addition to the list of benefits! Shared memories and references are indeed a superb benefit of reading aloud.<br /><br />I can't wait until the day when my twins grow up and we start reminiscing about all the great books that we enjoyed together. <br /><br />It has made us so close. <br /><br />I can understand how you must be elated as a parent when your kids bring up those references from childhood, it certainly must bring up great memories!<br /><br />By the way, let me tell you something strange. On the day that you left your comment, we were reading ... please take a chair and sit down .... Richard Scarry's Great Big Mystery Book! Incredible coincidence! <br /><br />And a fab read aloud book it is. My kids are crazy about Sam Cat and Dudley Pig the detectives. For any one who may be interested - Amazon is offering a 50% discount on the book today (Sep 12, 2011) http://ow.ly/6s23G - just checked! Its a fab deal for a great book. <br /><br />Also, I simply love the fact that books can teleport you different times and different places - as you mentioned. That on its own is priceless. <br /><br />I haven't read The Good Master (http://ow.ly/6s2vS) and The Singing Tree (http://ow.ly/6s2A0) - but I can tell you they are on my "to buy" list now, after reading those great reviews on Amazon. BTW, have you also read Seredi's The White Stag (http://ow.ly/6s2GQ) and do you recommend it?<br /><br />Oh, and the vocabulary benefit - that is an added benefit! <br /><br />Thanks so much for taking the time to leave such a valuable comment.<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @1a6f421fa31d469e960c7d3d42d91b3e Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-54618304655901305882011-09-18T02:08:10.617+02:002011-09-18T02:08:10.617+02:00Hi JenRay,
Thanks for your great contribution! It...Hi JenRay,<br /><br />Thanks for your great contribution! It is so nice that you have memories of your dad reading to you - it must be such a warm feeling when you think back to your childhood!<br /><br />Five in a Row sounds fabulous. I love the idea of integrating a story that you read aloud with other subjects. Your 4-year old is a lucky child to have such an engaged mom. <br /><br />JenRay you are such an inspiration - thanks so much for your message!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @3147619b78e6ac6114a8223e688ef0db Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-36690800523134924812011-09-16T05:05:05.753+02:002011-09-16T05:05:05.753+02:00Great post! It never occurred to me to read to my ...Great post! It never occurred to me to read to my kids in order to get to some end result. It is just something we do. Don't get me wrong, I know it is good for us all, and that there are grand benefits, but they aren't particularly tangible of course. My dad read to me every night after dinner (always a step or two up from my own reading level) until I was a teenager, and I asked him to stop. I love those memories, and know that the books he chose shaped my interests significantly.<br /><br />You might check out Five In A Row. It is a homeschool "curriculum" where your read a recommended story for 5 days in a row, and tie in social studies, art, science, etc. into the story. We always get a stack of "go along" books from the library for each main story too. We've tried recipes, listened to all sorts of music, tried our hand with various art mediums, learned lots of new vocabulary... all because of shelves of read alouds and looking at them more in depth than we had before. The stories we have read are really wonderful! As a side benefit, I think it is pretty cool that my 4-year old can point out Russia, Italy, China, Japan, and Appalachia on our world map because of the stories we have read. Of course, I am a SAHM and have time for all of this reading and exploration. It is great fun!JenRaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-81755099687553469962011-09-15T14:13:26.254+02:002011-09-15T14:13:26.254+02:00Hi Fanny Harville (J.)!
Thank you for your kind w...Hi Fanny Harville (J.)!<br /><br />Thank you for your kind words. <br /><br />By the way, I visited your blog and I adored your Reading Update: Dipping In or Reading Through? (http://tinyurl.com/3ljaa5n). I will re-tweet it and cross-promote it on my FB page, it is very very interesting!<br /><br />It is so useful to be reminded about how acquiring reading skills is a very complex and non-linear process. Not everything is predictable about how kids learn to read. <br /><br />Thanks so much for coming back to leave your new comment and the link to your interesting blog!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @8ca6c6b6249aef2fc148c16bd7198661 Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-67711516518943401812011-09-15T10:26:28.879+02:002011-09-15T10:26:28.879+02:00Hi Amy,
Your story is testament to the efficacy o...Hi Amy,<br /><br />Your story is testament to the efficacy of reading aloud. It is really time well spent as parents pass the reading bug on to their children and that is a fantastic outcome. <br /><br />Time is a limited resource. We only have so much time to make deep positive influences on the lives of our children. So, of course, it is better to start as early as possible. <br /><br />Thanks so much for your words!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: Amy Liles Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-62675321800818581982011-09-14T20:48:52.901+02:002011-09-14T20:48:52.901+02:00I adore reading with my duo and now they are both ...I adore reading with my duo and now they are both equally enamored with reading on their own. Amy Lilesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-39157274940052709472011-09-14T03:46:03.746+02:002011-09-14T03:46:03.746+02:00Glad you liked my sentence so much! :) I am not a...Glad you liked my sentence so much! :) I am not an English professor for nothing! Also, I meant to comment originally with my blog nom de plume: fannyharvilleunschool.blogspot.com<br />Thanks for your excellent blog; I enjoy reading it!<br />--Jessica (Fanny Harville)Fanny Harvillehttp://fannyharvilleunschool.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1903132716272208853.post-25566542195773328522011-09-13T00:48:14.623+02:002011-09-13T00:48:14.623+02:00"It's the gift that keeps on giving!"..."It's the gift that keeps on giving!" <br /><br />True words indeed, PragmaticMom! You are so lucky to have three listeners with whom you share three so different reading experiences. <br /><br />That is something very special! I know it must be a challenge reading on three fronts, but in your case it gives three times as many fruits!<br /><br />Just thinking about it makes me smile!<br /><br />Thanks for sharing a snapshot of your family's reading moments!<br /><br />Read Aloud Dad<br /><br />Re: @2f04fd44b02f5004c4fadc411b33b1aa Read Aloud Dadhttp://www.readalouddad.comnoreply@blogger.com